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Documentary
Overview
1950s. An escape. A new family. Through VHS footage and rescued letters, a grandmother's past is revealed.
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Maria Helena Santos Waltrick
Maria Helena Santos Waltrick
Self
Maria Helena Santos Waltrick
Self
Ormalina Ribeiro Duarte
Ormalina Ribeiro Duarte
Self
Ormalina Ribeiro Duarte
Self
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